Nothing new. For some time I just feel I'm a nag. I'm okay, you're okay, we're all okay, why do I bother others with the same shite over and over. Luxury problems. I have nothing to add. Apparently this is it. Quality of life. Happiness. Words. Yes, I would have been different if I was raised different. I can fret about that, but I've tried not to, since it wouldn't change anything. How would changing view on your past make a difference. I don't see it. That doesn't seem to change what I think now. How I view myself and the world now. I think. I can't be sure of anything right now.
I don't like my past much, I have nothing with my future since it's not here. I like now. I try to enjoy now. I try to do things now that I enjoy. I try to control now. My now, my reality. Miss therapy mumbles about looking forward to things, planning in the future. Things she's sure I would have if only. I can't be that sure. I can say that everything in the future would cause less stress with a different childhood. I can't say how I can get there without the stress. Everything that is uncertain causes stress to some extent. My joy is in the now. I might go do something that I might enjoy, but how can I know till it's happening. It might not happen at all. It might not be enjoyable. Something might go wrong.
And I still feel like a nag. Lately. Or before that I didn't think about it enough. Now I seem to have time and room to question myself again. And I do. Why am I not moving along. Or am I.
I don't like my past much, I have nothing with my future since it's not here. I like now. I try to enjoy now. I try to do things now that I enjoy. I try to control now. My now, my reality. Miss therapy mumbles about looking forward to things, planning in the future. Things she's sure I would have if only. I can't be that sure. I can say that everything in the future would cause less stress with a different childhood. I can't say how I can get there without the stress. Everything that is uncertain causes stress to some extent. My joy is in the now. I might go do something that I might enjoy, but how can I know till it's happening. It might not happen at all. It might not be enjoyable. Something might go wrong.
And I still feel like a nag. Lately. Or before that I didn't think about it enough. Now I seem to have time and room to question myself again. And I do. Why am I not moving along. Or am I.